October 23, 2017 Lacie Whitesell Why I recommend a first look. October 23, 2017 Lacie Whitesell Imagine... I take you both out to a named location, then I say okay you can turn around! No one else is too close by. You get to see each other, laugh, hug, cry, kiss. Much more than if you were seeing each other for the first time at the ceremony.